STRESS
This is probably the most common complaint, especially for the younger and pre-menopausal age group, as the greatest sex organ lies between the ears. It is not uncommon for my patients to reveal that they have sex at most once a month. The stress is mainly from working and over-working. Of course the home environment plays a part as well. It is absolutely unnatural to tell your partner that it is a safe period or the time of the month to have sex rather than it happening spontaneously.
SUGGESTION : Try to set aside certain days to relax, even when work is heavy. A good ambiance, dim lighting, light sexy music, aroma therapy will all help in setting the stage right. Give each other sensual massages, a longer period of foreplay and enough lubrication ( natural or applied ) such that both parties are absolutely wet before penetration usually gets the desired effects and results.
Christopher Chong
- Dr Chris Chong
- Singapore
- Dr Christopher Chong is frequently interviewed in press,magazines,media and has lectured oversea widely. Dr Chong is a pioneer in prolapse,incontience and pelvic floor reconstruction surgery inSingapore.
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